Monday, May 7, 2007
Lonely? Or just plain Creepy? YOU DECIDE!
My monthly POJO column ran this past Saturday "All men don't act like dogs, but occasionally we'd prefer it" to which I received the following e-mail (below is the shorten version). You decide if it's creepy! WOULD YOU RESPOND TO THIS?
Hello Sarah! Well I was sort of confused as a Man, about your recent
article about being more welcomed by your little dog than by your boy friend when you returned from a vacation...
If I were your boyfriend I would want to go and "protect" you and feel a bit jealous and nervous about you going there alone! I am sure you looked beautiful and alluring on a beach, probably in a string bikini that you would not wear in Poughkeepsie but is acceptable in Mexico, and plus a tan, so-why wouldn't men there notice and try to meet you? I would!
It is just a normal part of a man, to initiate possible romantic/sexual contact if he views an attractive woman and gets the impression that she is by herself. Most men are respectful of a woman if she "claims" to have a boy friend. Don't all women young or older say they have a boy friend? I am a bit envious however, of the fact that you have such a boy friend.
There are just some levels of affection that a pet cannot provide. Yes?
I am sure you looked beautiful on a beach in a bikini in Cancoon, and would also look beautiful in a bikini here, in the Hudson Valley area! Move over boyfriend! Thank you.
Confused and Lonely!
Posted by sarah at 10:12 AM