Maybe women make EX-cuses when men just “aren’t that into them.”
But maybe there is something to be said for the phrase my friends and I have coined:
It’s the: “I’m-a-LOSER-and-I-know-It-So-I-Can’t-Date-You,” guy.
Come on, I’m sure you know him.
He’s the guy who’s so intimiDATEd by your success that he can’t DATE you at all.
Your shiny new car makes his ’84 Chevy pickup look that much worse.
Your success at work only make his lacking assets more obvious.
And your ability to balance work and a relationship and even friendships points out the fact that he can’t even organize his EMPTY date book.
Sure, he likes you (who wouldn’t?)???
But he can’t let you in because then you’d see H I M.
Ya know, the guy who has less than you…
But even worse than that guy…
Is the guy whose mentality is so archaic that he can’t be with a W O M A N who has her life together.
But maybe it goes both ways... have you ever been the Intimi-DATE-er before???