Maybe she IS bitter.
Maybe she IS pessimistic and completely jaded.
But that doesn't mean
YOU ARE NEVER WRONG.
Time and time again, people who do nasty things attempt to apologize by placing the blame elsewhere.
Namely on the victim of the nastiness.
"Well I may have said that, but it's your low self-esteem that made it hurt."
I'm sorry, but since when did a person's esteem become their problem after being insulted?
So keep in mind, that when you've been rude to a woman
it is not HER ISSUES that make your comments offensive.
It's YOUR COMMENTS.
And the next time you're telling her
that her brain is to blame
for the hurt your comment caused... watch out.
Because a blame thrower is a torch after all...
and she's bound to burn you back.