THIS GUY says that cheating is sometimes beneficial to a relationship.
That once a man conquers his lust, he'll realize just how important love is to him. He claims that even at it's worst, cheating can lead a man to realize his relationship was over long ago and save him from staying in an otherwise bad relationship.
But is it not the cheating what makes the relationship bad?
And can't just the IDEA of satisfying those lustful urges lead someone to understand all that is at stake?
I don't think the deed must be done with the neighbor's wife in order for someone to realize all the benefits of the relationship. But I do understand that taking someone for granted is what may lead a lot of people to find excitement in someone new.
But if it takes cheating to realize what you have... then the old saying is true.
You don't know what you've got 'til it's gone.
Because no self-respecting person is going to stick around after they've been the victim of cheating... and gone is all they will be.