Wednesday, November 19, 2008
In my single days I was often accompanied by my wing-woman. A gal whose lust for life, love, and the pursuit of vanilla vodka matched my own.
But while we were similar in a lot of ways, we definitely had our differences and were therefore worthy of individual attention.
And yet, I can't begin to tell you how many times I felt as if WE were being hit on by ONE man, who wasn't particularly interested in ONE of us, but who simply wanted A GIRL for his own.
It didn't matter which of us declined or accepted his offer...
This type of guy was out to find "women" in general, not me and not her exclusively.
And when we were approached as some unified object whose only purpose was to provide that guy with affection, we declined.
Because while some men seem to think EVERYTHING in this world is super sized...
When dating it's still best to ask for a single serving if you hope to satisfy your craving.