Thursday, April 2, 2009
You're Just Not That Into HIM
I sometimes think women spend too much time stressing over how much the new guy in their life "likes them."
They immediately wonder when he doesn't call back how invested in the relationship he is.
They spend time obsessing about why he "disappeared after one perfect date!"
And they consider all the things they may have said to turn him off.
But the reality of the situation is that they are focusing on HIS FEELINGS rather than THEIR OWN.
So the next time a gal is sipping her martini and wondering why he hasn't called her back, perhaps she should consider if she wants to be with a man WHO IS RUDE. A man who ISN'T BRAVE ENOUGH TO BE HONEST or CAPABLE OF HANDLING A SITUATION LIKE AN ADULT.
Maybe if we spent more time going after what we want instead of just being satisfied with him wanting us then we'll be grateful when Mr. Almost-Good-Enough blows us off.
Because with every unexplained dismissal he is doing us a favor by showing the kind of man he is.
Exactly the kind, we don't want in our lives... at all.